Gately 'mended rift with mother just before death'

Stephen Gately patched up a decade-long rift with his mother in one of his final acts before his death, according to a magazine.

Stephen Gately patched up a decade-long rift with his mother in one of his final acts before his death, according to a magazine.

The pair had quarrelled since 1999 when his mother gave an interview to a tabloid newspaper on the day he came out as gay, with their relationship particularly strained over the last five years.

However, in an interview with Reveal magazine, given two weeks before he died, the former Boyzone singer said he flew to Dublin to make peace with his mother.

Gately told the magazine: “There were tears and I told her I loved her very much and I’d always be there for her.

“I told her I was wrong and I should never have let it get that far.”

Gately said he was “ashamed” that he was not getting on with his mother and the arguments had started over “the silliest thing”.

In the end it was his brother who encouraged him to mend the rift and make it up.

The Irish singer spoke candidly about coming to terms with depression after Boyzone split and how he rejected anti-depressants because they made him feel like a zombie.

Howver, it was finding husband Andrew Cowles that eventually helped Gately get his life back on track and the pair had even discussed starting a family together.

He told Reveal: “I’d love to be a dad, Andrew and I are always talking about how lovely it would be.

“I don’t think I’d ever feel truly fulfilled in my life if I didn’t experience the job of being a father.”

Gately died of a cardiogenic pulmonary oedema two weeks ago in the home he shared with Cowles on the Spanish island of Mallorca.

The full interview appears in this week’s edition of Reveal.

more courts articles

DUP calls for measures to prevent Northern Ireland from becoming 'magnet' for asylum seekers DUP calls for measures to prevent Northern Ireland from becoming 'magnet' for asylum seekers
UK's Illegal Migration Act should be disapplied in Northern Ireland, judge rules UK's Illegal Migration Act should be disapplied in Northern Ireland, judge rules
Former prisoner given indefinite hospital order for killing Irishman in London Former prisoner given indefinite hospital order for killing Irishman in London

More in this section

Behind the scenes at Ireland AM: 'People wake up with us every morning — it’s such a privilege' Behind the scenes at Ireland AM: 'People wake up with us every morning — it’s such a privilege'
Stressed business woman overworked in office Natural Health: I'm perimenopausal and find it difficult to focus at work
Smartwatch with health app. Glowing neon icon on brick wall background Health watch: How much health data is healthy? 
ieParenting Logo
Writers ieParenting

Our team of experts are on hand to offer advice and answer your questions here

Your digital cookbook

ieStyle Live 2021 Logo
ieStyle Live 2021 Logo

IE Logo
Outdoor Trails

Discover the great outdoors on Ireland's best walking trails

IE Logo
Outdoor Trails

Lifestyle
Newsletter

The best food, health, entertainment and lifestyle content from the Irish Examiner, direct to your inbox.

Sign up
Cookie Policy Privacy Policy Brand Safety FAQ Help Contact Us Terms and Conditions

© Examiner Echo Group Limited